

mahaprastanza / greatest journey
By kevin martens wong zhi qiang
originally published on pasku / easter Sunday, 20 april 2025
on tigri sa chang
Koitadu | Content warning
Please first read about my writing in the Skribadorang or Writing section on the Igleza page here before reading the piece below so you have advance warning about the rather spicy things that I often like to write about, and why I choose to write about them, especially in terms of subverting unhealthy stereotypes about gay people, Kristang people, Creole people, Indigenous people, masculinity, neurodivergence, the body, healthy forms of attraction and sexuality, and using my writing to process the severe individual, collective and inter-generational trauma and abuse I have faced across my life.
Come away with me at long last;
let us go together into that dreaming spacetime
where we are both no longer haunted
by the remnants of an unprocessable past
and you can laugh with me,
and cry with me,
and finally have the courage to ask
if you can hold my hand
while you at last look into the screaming void
and know
that you have always been
so much more than mere lost and lonely
echoing, windswept sand
sweeping across the dunes
of other people's lives.
Other heroes' rivers.
Other dreaming gods' visions, and virtues, and nights
for I am not Karimang,
in the spaces and times of these words:
I am Kevin,
the one you first saw broken and destroyed
and the one whose worth
you still saw
and knew
and loved
and heard
and now I am the first fire to ride
so fully and beautifully free.
I am the first lion child to turn back the hurts.
To finally embrace our collective destiny
because you
put that flower back in my hair
when I needed it.
When no one else
was there
you called my name
and you said
Kev—
remember that it is because of you
I myself finally learned to dream and dare.
So dream with me, my heart and soul.
Look into that void
and at last make us both not just whole
but real and true.
At last know that
you will always be there for you
and I will always be there for me.
And that I will always love you.
Not just for as long as I breathe
but for as long as you remember
that you alone always had the power
to lift yourself out of your own hell.
Let me at last be your first flower.
Your mightiest walrus.
The first words along this river
of dreaming hopes
and absolutely one tremendously amazing story
to finally one day tell.